The agamy is a new model for our relations, consisting of the flourishing of social ties on them by dissolving the bonds blocked by the heteronormative monogamy.
I call “gamos” to the understood union or marriage inspired in objective and formal marriage. I call “gamic relationship” to one whose substance is a gamos. Sex is the sacrament of the gamos.
What we call “couple relationship”, “dating” or simply “relationship” is nothing more than a gamic relationship. The terms “partner”, “significant other” or “person which I’m seeing” are all synonyms for “gamic relationship.” The use of the term “relationship” is subordinate in our culture to gamic relationship. Any other relationship needs to be specified to correctly understand its nature. Also needs, therefore, to be defined, in first instance, depending on the presence or absence of gamos. We speak of “friendship” or “friendship relation” where there is a non-specific relationship without gamos. We speak of “profesional relationship” where there is an relationship between two people who work together and have no gamos (whereas, in the presence of gamos, will talk about “relationship with a workpartner”). We speak of “lover” where there is a clandestine intercourse, as sex, the sacrament of gamos, is violated by preventing the establishment of gamos.
Really interesting approach (despite the changing background web colors!) to relationships. Fucking tired of “are we couple? Gilrfriend boyfriend?”. Why can’t we just be what we are each moment!! Scheiße